Pedulikan

One the biggest mistakes people make when they’re trying to impress someone is that they assume people only pay attention to the important or “big” things they do. But the reality is that the little things are what matter most. It’s the little things we do or don’t do every day that shape us in to who we are. The little things determine how we respond when big things come in to our lives.

Many times, we are our own worst enemy. Happiness is really dependent on perspective. If we think something is a problem, then our thoughts and emotions will be negative. But if we think it’s something we can learn from, then suddenly, it’s not a problem anymore.

Our "Dunia Luaran"(outer world) is a reflection of our inner world. Don’t we know people whose lives are chaotic and stressful? And isn’t that largely because we feel chaotic inside? Ye dok? Yes, it is. We like to think that changing our circumstances will change us. But we have it backwards, we need to change ourselves first before our circumstances will change.

People fear change, that's natural. questions may lead to changes in a system, changes in the way we do things, changes in the way we think, it could even change you - hence people fear questions. personally i think, since we were kids, especially i speak of the malay society, we are trained to fear having questions, we can't question - the " saya "yang menurut perintah' doctrine. and as questions lead to reasoning/ logic, lack of questions will then lead to lack of logic. 

Pedulikan! But if we do compare ourself, compare ourself with people who have it worse than us. Unemployed? Be grateful that we live in a country that gives unemployment compensation, because most people in the world live on less than us. So you don’t look like Aaron Aziz? Well, I bet there are more people who don’t than do. And you are probably way better looking than most people. Focus on that. 

 When we are stuck in a bad situation, we think that there is no way out. We think nothing will ever change. But guess what? It will! Nothing is permanent except death. But we do need to take some sort of action for things to change. It won’t magically happen all on its own. Pedulikan!

Sekian.